steppin_pretty
06-09-2006, 03:36 AM
Hi Sarah!
I've been a silent admirer/fan and been following your career more or less since you were 16, but this is my very first visit to any of your forums. I wanted you to know that elsewhere a lot has been said about your current website and others like yourself and what you do these days, some positive and some not so positive. Of the ones that were not so positive and downright disrespectful, I can tell you that some of these comments came from two-faced individuals who at one time claimed to be your fans and yet may still even be members of your site.
If you've personally ever gotten any negative criticism that really hurt your feelings, keep in mind that society's impressions has made each and every one of us different in our likes and dislikes, philosophies, ambitions...(and fortunately in some cases, it's allowed some of us to be more realistic than others). For this reason we can't please everyone in decisions that we make, but at least we can definitely please ourselves, and all of us should at least do that in our lifetime. Furthermore, it goes without saying how we all live our lives makes it easy to judge and criticize others and others to judge and criticize us, but because of society's impressions none of us really have that right to judge though we take it upon ourselves to exercise it from a moral standpoint, even though we're not in a court of law where that right is only legally given to us.
At any rate, you were a pretty girl back then, and now you have blossomed into a beautiful woman today. And while I'm assuming that everyone here is your fan and all are very supportive of what you do and everything that you do, and that it's very important to you how your fans feel about you, what should matter the most is how you, Sarah, feel about yourself and how you see yourself, and those feelings and image of yourself should always be positive.
The reason I decided to write was because there was too much building up and I had heard enough and was just pissed, even though it wasn't even me they were talking about. Again, it wasn't just you, but other women as well. Hopefully I haven't reiterated what's been said before time and time again. But I do hope you and your girlfriends and ALL women in general are given the utmost respect and consideration that you all deserve first and foremost, no matter what you choose to do, no matter what decisions you make. You've always been and will forever be a favourite of mine until if and when you leave the internet and the spotlight. You're so photogenic and I'm sure you're just as beautiful inside as you are out. By no means am I trying to score points. I'm just telling it like it is. Stay clean always and I wish you all the best in your current and future endeavors. Steve :-)
I've been a silent admirer/fan and been following your career more or less since you were 16, but this is my very first visit to any of your forums. I wanted you to know that elsewhere a lot has been said about your current website and others like yourself and what you do these days, some positive and some not so positive. Of the ones that were not so positive and downright disrespectful, I can tell you that some of these comments came from two-faced individuals who at one time claimed to be your fans and yet may still even be members of your site.
If you've personally ever gotten any negative criticism that really hurt your feelings, keep in mind that society's impressions has made each and every one of us different in our likes and dislikes, philosophies, ambitions...(and fortunately in some cases, it's allowed some of us to be more realistic than others). For this reason we can't please everyone in decisions that we make, but at least we can definitely please ourselves, and all of us should at least do that in our lifetime. Furthermore, it goes without saying how we all live our lives makes it easy to judge and criticize others and others to judge and criticize us, but because of society's impressions none of us really have that right to judge though we take it upon ourselves to exercise it from a moral standpoint, even though we're not in a court of law where that right is only legally given to us.
At any rate, you were a pretty girl back then, and now you have blossomed into a beautiful woman today. And while I'm assuming that everyone here is your fan and all are very supportive of what you do and everything that you do, and that it's very important to you how your fans feel about you, what should matter the most is how you, Sarah, feel about yourself and how you see yourself, and those feelings and image of yourself should always be positive.
The reason I decided to write was because there was too much building up and I had heard enough and was just pissed, even though it wasn't even me they were talking about. Again, it wasn't just you, but other women as well. Hopefully I haven't reiterated what's been said before time and time again. But I do hope you and your girlfriends and ALL women in general are given the utmost respect and consideration that you all deserve first and foremost, no matter what you choose to do, no matter what decisions you make. You've always been and will forever be a favourite of mine until if and when you leave the internet and the spotlight. You're so photogenic and I'm sure you're just as beautiful inside as you are out. By no means am I trying to score points. I'm just telling it like it is. Stay clean always and I wish you all the best in your current and future endeavors. Steve :-)